How to Be a Gracious About Getting Gifts

I love getting gifts. I also love giving gifts. It brings me so much joy when I know a person loves what I’ve found for them. But I know that sometimes the gift-giver can miss the mark. Or maybe you just are a little awkward about receiving gifts. That’s okay! Here is how to be gracious when receiving a gift, no matter the circumstances.

If you are socially awkward

While I’ve never really had a problem accepting gifts (because as I said before, I love getting them), I know what it’s like to be socially awkward. If you’re out of your comfort zone and someone gives you a gift, all you have to do is say a simple, “thank you.” That really goes for any situation you may find yourself in.

If you already have it

You do not have to say that you already have something. In fact, if you already have it, it shows how well the person knows you! In this case, I would say either, “You are so thoughtful,” or “Thanks! I’m really into ___.” 

If you hate it

You should be gracious when receiving – even if you don’t like the gift! You don’t have to go on and on about what a great gift it is. People will see through that immediately. But saying something like, “Thank you for thinking of me,” shows that you are gracious and that you appreciate the thought, because as the saying goes, that’s what really counts! 

If you haven’t gotten them a gift

To me, this is the worst situation to be in and I’ve found myself on both ends of it. First let me say that you are not obligated to get anyone a gift, even if they give you something. But I always believe in being kind, especially at Christmas. So your initial reaction should be, “thank you.” From there, it’s up to you. If you really don’t want to encourage a gift-giving relationship with someone, end the conversation at that. If you decide you would like to reciprocate and you have the opportunity to do so, mention that you’ll bring your gift the next time you see them. 

One last piece of advice, no matter what, send a little note to follow up. You don’t have to rave about the gift. Just another “thank you” and let them know you appreciate the thought. 

I hope this has helped you to receive a gift with grace next time you come up against any of these situations! If you’re looking for more guidance, All Gifts Considered has some great advice on how to receive a gift the right way.

And if you’re looking for the perfect gift for the traveler in your life, make sure you check out my gift guides for him, her, those who travel for work, the littles in your life and everyone in between! And don’t forget the stocking stuffers!